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Kids love the USA, but don’t necessarily feel safe here

October 29, 2013 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

A study released by Highlights magazine this month indicates that children feel patriotic about our country, but fewer feel they are safer than their parents were growing up. It’s an interesting survey to read in light of a recent wave of violence in schools, including the school shooting in Nevada and the murder of a […]

Don’t lick the dishes, and other models of good behavior

April 12, 2013 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

I stood by the kitchen sink, my hands on my hips. “You know better than that,” I said to the older of the two. She ducked her head to avoid my stare, feigning innocence. I ignored her feeble attempt to be cute and pressed on. “She’s little, and you should be a role model,” I […]

You’re not the boss of me – at least during playtime

March 27, 2013 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary

Parents should play with their children but not micro-manage every aspect of playtime. That’s according to a recent study published in the academic journal, “Parenting: Science and Practice.” University of Missouri researchers studied videotaped interactions of 2,252 low-income mothers with their children during playtime, paying close attention to how kids responded to “directiveness.” The children, […]

Is your child ready for full-day kindergarten?

March 6, 2013 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary

When our daughters were young, we had no questions about kindergarten readiness. Both girls were born in March, and my husband and I knew that by the September following their fifth birthdays they’d be more than ready for the half-day program offered in our district. The decision was not quite as simple with our son, […]

Mine! Mine! Mine!

February 15, 2013 | Posted in: Early Learners

“It’s mine!” shouts your preschooler, as he reaches to pull a truck from the hands of a friend, and you find yourself once again in negotiations with a pair of 4-year-olds. You love planning play dates for your child, but you’ve had just about enough of the refereeing that comes with the territory. There are […]

Why imaginary play is so important

December 6, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners

My oldest daughter was convinced when she was little that she was Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz. Many of the popular animated movies at the time scared her too much to make it through the first five minutes, yet she was enthralled when her heroine faced off against the Wicked Witch of the West. […]

‘Kissing Hands’ to soothe separation tears

September 14, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary

The fantasy goes something like this: Your young child wakes early and bounds down the stairs to breakfast, unable to contain her excitement about going to school. You can barely get a word in as she insists you’re actually punishing her by making her eat breakfast and brush her teeth instead of heading off to […]

First day of kindergarten is a big step for everyone

July 31, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary

Anticipation about starting kindergarten followed a similar path for all three of my children. They couldn’t wait to be “big kids,” and talk about how excited they were for “the big day” filled our summer. That is, until about a week before school started. “What if I don’t make friends?” “Will my teacher be nice?” […]

Parent activity level creates lifelong habit for children

July 12, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

It should come as no surprise that the activity level of parents plays a key role in determining their children’s activity level. A new study emphasizes the importance of parents setting the stage for their children to becoming active adults – so it’s information worth repeating. Researchers at Oregon State University studied 200 families with […]

Your brain is not fully developed yet! What kind of excuse is that?

June 13, 2012 | Posted in: Middle Years

School’s almost out, and many of us are facing the annual summer dilemma of what to with do with our middle schoolers. They’re too old for most summer recreation programs, too young to get a job, and exactly the right age for them to think we should just leave them home alone. Studies on the […]