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Stepping back rather than stepping in may be right move for sibling squabbles

July 13, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

We love that we have the opportunity to spend more time together as family during the summer. What we don’t love is the increased opportunity for sibling squabbles. It’s a fact of life: Kids don’t always get along. As much as we’d like to step in and wave our magic wand to stop the arguments, […]

Curbing uncivil behavior this summer’s hot topic

June 29, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

When we talk about bullying in schools, we tend to think of students harassing other students. By now, you’ve likely seen – or at least heard about – the video in which a group of middle school students relentlessly badger 68-year-old Karen Klein, a school bus monitor in western New York. Their vicious jeers still […]

‘Rite of passage’ is wrong way to think about drinking

June 1, 2012 | Posted in: High School, Middle Years

Some see it as a rite of passage. Others say it’s simply teens being teens. We’re talking, of course, about drinking alcohol. It’s a celebration-filled time of year that seems ripe for teen alcohol abuse – proms, graduations, pool parties, bonfires. The reality is that it’s illegal – both for the underage child and for […]

Go away, but please don’t leave me alone.

April 19, 2012 | Posted in: Middle Years

There are days when connecting with my middle schooler seems as if I’m trying to crack some secret code from another planet. We cover the same material in our conversations, but our talks are often disjointed, and we are unable to relate on any rational level. Then there are moments (“days” would be an exaggeration […]

Got stress? Help your middle schooler cope

March 13, 2012 | Posted in: Middle Years

To adults, the middle school years seem like they should be completely carefree for children whose focus is on school, friends and activities of their choosing – and not necessarily in that order. But middle school can be a time of confusion. Kids at that age are going through a whole host of changes – […]

When the news gets scary

When the news gets scary

February 29, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

  Feb. 15, 2018 – The dateline for this article has been updated several times since its original publication in 2011. Terror in the streets and violence in our schools repeatedly spark a search for help. What can we do, how can we talk to our children about the scary events we all may see […]

Please don’t suck helium

February 29, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

Peer pressure. We all hear about it. At some point in our lives, we probably even succumbed to it. Peer pressure isn’t always bad. In fact, there are times when peer pressure is good – such as when your children’s friends challenge them to push themselves in a class or athletics, or to try something […]

Toddler tantrums often mimic adult behavior

February 29, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

A new study indicates the way parents approach the toddler years can affect how their child will develop. Researchers found that “parents who anger easily and overreact are more likely to have toddlers who act out and become upset easily.” In other words, if you quickly fly off the handle at your toddler’s boundary-testing antics, […]

Cutting down on tube time

January 31, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

Q: I’m a working mom, and I let my son watch TV in the evening so I can prepare dinner and get things done around the house. I know TV isn’t great for my preschooler, but how can I get housework done without depending on the tube to entertain my child? A: You raise an important question. […]

When illness is actually avoidance

January 31, 2012 | Posted in: Early Learners, Elementary, High School, Middle Years

The symptoms seem mild: headache, stomachache, fatigue. But the complaints are fairly regular – and typically surface on school days. If there are no obvious signs of illness, such as fever or vomiting, and a check with your pediatrician rules out physical factors, your child could be suffering from what psychologists call “school avoidance.” School […]